IT’S ALL ABOUT THE BLUES

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’m officially in love with this denim off the shoulder dress. It goes perfectly with my sunnies, but most importantly, you can pair it with literally ANYTHING! This is an essential piece for my wardrobe and shall be worn often. I kept it pretty simple in these pics by only pairing it with my blue tinted sunnies and blue and white striped espadrilles. I’ll be hauling this dress to the beach next month and packing it for some road trips as well. If your out of outfit ideas, buy a simple yet trendy dress like this and pair it with accessories that you already own and BOOM-instant glam.
I have a tendency to over think and over work my outfits so typically when that happens I just choose a simple dress and add some accessories to elevate the look. I find that over thinking your look really takes away from the fun in getting dressed and robs you of your creativity. That being said, as a general rule, I never set my clothes out the night before, I usually wake up and choose my outfit according to mood. A bit risky but my feelings may not be the same from day to day when it comes to outfits. It is very possible for me to be in a boho mood the night before and wake up feeling a bit casual in some oversized boyfriend jeans and chucks. I just never know so I wait till the day of.
Wishing you all a great week!
Sincerely,
Deidra Marie

WHITE OFF THE SHOULDER DRESS

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I kept it super simple easy breezy this weekend in my white off the shoulder dress. It was just that type of weather this weekend and I just couldn’t resist fresh whites with a pop of color. I have a bit of an obsession with the color white so it was really a no-brainer getting ready. NC weather has finally caught up with my wardrobe and I’m so happy about it. If I had it my way, it would be spring everyday and all day. So wishing I could put this weather in a time-capsule and never ever transition to winter days and black ice.
I decided to revisit my old stomping grounds (Downtown Raleigh) and soaked up some serious sun rays and now have a few brownish tan lines to prove it. You can do just about anything with this light, airy white dress. I kept it real simple this time around and added some blue tinted sunnies, chandelier earrings and finished the look off with my teal peep toe flats. This look is great for a warm day out at the park or for meeting up with friends for a brunch or coffee. What I love most about this dress is that it can easily transition to the perfect beach look; add a floppy hat and some cute casual sandals and BOOM, instant beach wear!
I’d like to end this post by announcing that all the votes are in and I’ve decided that Monday should no longer exist and it’s dreadful friends called Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday shall be excommunicated and can no longer participate in the weekday lineup. Unfortunately, there is just not enough room in the week for these days so I have no other choice but to amend them. I apologize for any inconvenience this may cause to your weekday festivities but understand that it is simply for the best. <>
Just a little Monday morning humor. LOL, HAPPY MONDAY EVERYONE!
Sincerely,
Deidra Marie
Teal Stone Chandelier Earrings-New Delhi,India-Clear blue tinted sunnies-Charlotte Russe,

KNOWING WHEN NOT TO PURCHASE

 

I’m sure you’ve walked into plenty of stores only because you saw that tempting 50% off sale sign sitting outside the store door. The sign lured you in and mysteriously the sale section was calling your name. You find a skirt cuddled away in the corner of the sale section that’s just right for a night out with the girls. The skirt is your size and your now convinced you actually need it; as if it was destiny; it was waiting there just for you to purchase. You know you have a skirt from last year that looks exactly like it! Now the battle begins; you make up justifications as to why you should buy:
“The skirt from last year has a few threads coming out; it’s basically on its last leg”
“I don’t even know why I bought that skirt, black is so not my color, it washes me out.”
“They are practically giving this skirt away for free because it’s so cheap; I’m actually making money off of this purchase.”
Yep, ladies and gentleman, we’ve all done it! After the purchase, the item may sit in your closet with tags on it for months before we even wear. So how do you know if it’s really a steal?
KNOWING WHEN NOT PURCHASE
THE MIX AND MATCH
Can this item be mixed and matched with other pieces in your closet? You want to get your money’s worth out of the pieces you buy. Classic pieces like a little black dress or a solid colored scarf go a long ways because they can easily be paired with the trendy pieces you already own. Unless you have a specific event or outing to attend that requires a specific type of look, stick with pieces that you can reuse.
THE DREADED FINAL SALE
For some, final sale is not scary, but we all impulse buy. You may have fallen absolutely in love with the sale piece you’re purchasing and forget to even ask if it’s returnable. It’s not worth your time if you can’t return it. Unless you’re absolutely sure this is an item you would not think twice about bringing back and you’re sure you will actually use this item, I suggest letting it stay on the rack.
WINDOW SHOPPING
You just wanted to get out the house, ease your boredom maybe. This is the worst time to go to the mall or a shopping center because you end up buying stuff you simply do not need. Shop with purpose! Before heading out, check your closet and determine what pieces of your wardrobe can be updated. Window shopping usually leads to buying things that have nothing to do with your lifestyle. If you check out your wardrobe beforehand, you can go to the mall and purchase items you will actually wear, instead of items that you really don’t need.
GIFTING
I’m guilty of going to the mall to get a gift for a friend or for a family member and end up buying something for myself. Gifting is a tricky thing because you are shopping with purpose but temptation lurks on every corner. You may feel like rewarding yourself for going out to buy a gift for others. It’s so easy to want to buy for yourself while buying for others. Know why you are in the store and leave your own needs at home for another day. Stick to the plan because more often than not, you really don’t need anything.
CONVENIENCE FACTOR
If you’re shopping on a budget, take some time to look around. Don’t purchase the first thing you see or purchase from the first store you go into. More often than not, there are better deals at other locations. Sometimes shopping is not convenient, but if you’re willing to do your research you can save a bunch of money.  Avid shoppers do their homework before they spend their hard earned money. Make it worth it! The grass might actually be greener on the other side. Save your money and shop around!
These are just things I think about before purchasing. I’ve had my fair share of shopping mistakes, but once I started thinking about my lifestyle and my needs, I started seeing less items sitting in my closet with tags on it. I started making my purchases count. I had been looking for a denim dress to wear to work and for outings, but shopped around for the best deal and snagged this dress for $15 bucks! Yes, $15 bucks! I was shopping with purpose and with a little research, I found a dress that I can wear multiple ways. If you are on a budget, I’m sure you understand. Make it count!
Sincerely,
Deidra Marie