BEACH DAY

 

 

 

 

 

 

Surfs up
Seashell search

 

Those shoes 🙂

 

 

 

 

Boardwalking

 

 

Calm waters

 

 

Boardwalk Swag

 

All Smiles
Boardwalk
Beach Swag
My handsome
Wetlands
Birdies
Beach Living
Serbert Beach House
Pretty Florals
Gotcha
Rains coming
Beach Bum

It was so relaxing to get away! Charlie and I are notorious for these random spur of the moment beach trips. We are random and this trip to Carolina Beach was very random. Charlie has a friend with a condo out here so from time to time we pop up and chill out. God held the rain for about an hour then the bottom fell out. We were able to snap some pretty cool shots of the surfers, some birdies and some beautiful waves. I thought for sure I wasn’t going to see a beach this memorial weekend but I guess dreams do come true. Coped this cute seersucker dress from Banana Republic the other day and thought it was beach worthy. I kept it pretty simple and only styled it with some oversized pearl earrings and got rid of the head scarf and sunnies since there was actually no sun. LOL.

 

I hope everyone’s Memorial Day was awesome. Thanking God for those who served our country and sacrificed their lives for our freedom.

 

Sincerely,

 

Deidra Marie

FRIDAY BREW: CO-WASHING

Enjoying my fav, a delicious iced hazelnut coffee with cream and discussing the hair cleansing technique called co-washing. This article is a repost that I wrote from a few  years back but is always so informative for new naturals and those in transition or those who’d like to revisit this technique again. It’s all about the basics and co-washing is one of them. Hope you enjoy!


What is co-washing?

Co-washing is using conditioner to cleanse your hair and scalp in replacement of shampoo. Many curlies opt to shampoo once a month or even twice or month. Co-washing is another way to cleanse  your hair without stripping the hair of its natural oils. It relieves overly dry hair from the stress of harsh shampoos and clarifiers. While  
co-washing can cleanse the hair and scalp, build-up can still be left behind so clarifying the hair and scalp at least once a month is recommended. 

What if I choose to do no poo?

If you choose to do no poo you must find alternative methods of cleansing as co-washing will not be able to clarify the hair and scalp in its entirety.  Don’t be dismayed, there are options for those curlies who choose to do no poo.

  • Apple Cider Vinegar Rinse/ACV  Rinse
  • Rosemary Rinse
  • Baking Soda
  • Bentonite Clay

These are all alternative methods that for many naturals, get the job done. 

How often should I co-wash?

There is no specific amount of times a natural should Co-wash. It is all based on personal preference . It is important to listen to your hair and observe what it needs. Split ends mean it is time for a trim, Co-washing means it is time for a  wash, shampooing or clarifying means it is time to cleanse when co-washing is not catching all the build up. For me, it is only necessary to clarify once a month  as for the other three weeks out of the month, I just co-wash.

What is the best conditioner to co-wash with?

You want to co-wash with a conditioner that has a lot of slip and is water soluble. Deep conditioners and leave-in conditioners are meant to stick to the hair for extra moisture so those will not be effective in cleansing the hair and scalp but they rather stick to the hair and do not remove build-up. Avoid conditioners with silicones, silicones stick to the hair and reduce frizz but can only be removed with shampoo. Over time silicones build up on the hair causing loose or limp curl definition. Here is a list of some water soluble conditioners I like to co-wash with.

Shop my favorite Co-Washes:
Trader Joe’s Tea Tree Tingle Conditioner | Aussie Moist | Giovanni

So how do I co-wash exactly?

Pretty simple actually. Take your conditioner of choice and massage and work into wet scalp and hair as you would shampoo. Rinse and repeat if necessary. Those with hair that gets tangled very easily: co-washing in the shower with your hair sectioned makes finger detangling less of  a hassle. Let your hair run under the shower stream and see how easy it is to get shed hair and tangles out quicker. Another method would be to wet your hair under the sink or with a spray bottle then work conditioner in hair and scalp and then get in the shower to remove conditioner. Both ways work well for me but co-washing while in the shower seems to be the quickest way and is of course lazy girl approved.

Happy Co-Washing!


IT’S ALL ABOUT THE BLUES

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’m officially in love with this denim off the shoulder dress. It goes perfectly with my sunnies, but most importantly, you can pair it with literally ANYTHING! This is an essential piece for my wardrobe and shall be worn often. I kept it pretty simple in these pics by only pairing it with my blue tinted sunnies and blue and white striped espadrilles. I’ll be hauling this dress to the beach next month and packing it for some road trips as well. If your out of outfit ideas, buy a simple yet trendy dress like this and pair it with accessories that you already own and BOOM-instant glam.
I have a tendency to over think and over work my outfits so typically when that happens I just choose a simple dress and add some accessories to elevate the look. I find that over thinking your look really takes away from the fun in getting dressed and robs you of your creativity. That being said, as a general rule, I never set my clothes out the night before, I usually wake up and choose my outfit according to mood. A bit risky but my feelings may not be the same from day to day when it comes to outfits. It is very possible for me to be in a boho mood the night before and wake up feeling a bit casual in some oversized boyfriend jeans and chucks. I just never know so I wait till the day of.
Wishing you all a great week!
Sincerely,
Deidra Marie