MY 2019 SKIN ROUTINE AND SKINCARE TIPS

This year has been and will continue to be the year of self-care. I’ve gone back and forth with different skin products to really narrow down my skin routine and I think this year I’ve finally got it down to a science. So, here’s a little skin update for you. Here’s hoping my skin routine gives you an idea of things you can do to help maintain healthy skin throughout the year or perhaps it will be just the encouragement you need to make a few routine tweaks.

So, to start, I must share that I change my skin routine about twice a year to accommodate the weather change, using heavier more moisturizing products in the winter months and rotating to lighter skin products and thinner oils in the summer. I have dry skin so my main goal is to maintain moisture. Some of you have heard me talk about my eczema and Hidradentitis Supprativa otherwise know as HS, an auto immune skin condition that causes painful lesions in the armpit and groin areas. With these conditions in mind, I have to be extra careful and strategic of what products I use on my skin as it is ultra sensitive to fragrance and certain ingredients.

FOR FACE

1.  Morning: I use a dollop size amount of the Trader Joes Nourish Antioxidant Facial Serum. This product provides long-lasting moisture and is great for those with skin that doesn’t hold moisture for a full day. I follow-up with a light moisturizing facial cream by Trader Joe’s, lately I’ve been using the Trader Joe’s skincare line because the ingredients are all natural and gentle on skin. And finally, I add less than a dime size amount of the Trader Joe’s Moisturizing Face Lotion with 15 SPF. This is a great moisturizer as well as a light sun protectant. I’m not in the sun often throughout the day, but it does beam through my car while I’m driving, so I try to protect my skin from those harsh UV rays. On days where I get a lot of sun exposure, which is usually on vacation, I use a stronger face moisturizer SPF, like Neutrogena or Eucerin.

2. Night: At night, I cleanse with luke warm water and Acure Sensitive Skin Facial Cleanser and follow-up with a dollop of the Trader Joe’s serum and facial moisturizer.

NOTE: Every now and then my face needs an extra boost of moisture. When that is that case, my go to moisture boost is the Burts Bees Hydrating Sheet Face Sheet Mask. I try to do these every other week or before a big pageant or appearance.

FOR BODY

  1. Morning: I cleanse with Dove for sensitive skin. I alternate between the bar and cream. For moisture, I use the Earth Kissed Beauty Sweet Body Butter. In the winter, for extra extra moisture, I add a dab of avocado oil or apricot oil. Both are great for moisture and reducing the appearance of fine lines. During the summer I use light oils like Jojoba oil, grapeseed oil and sweet almond oil to moisturize
  2.  Night: At night, it’s pretty much the same routine except I don’t use much oil at night as that needs time to really sink into each layer of your skin and laying down to go to bed, it will just rub off.

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Keep scrolling for some other skincare tips.

So all these products are great, but they mean nothing without focusing on habits and behaviors. What I mean is, these products coupled with a healthy diet and exercise really take your skin from good to great. That being said, I try to get at least 4 servings or more of vegetables in my diet everyday and have been working super super hard to consume 128oz or a gallon of water a day. It’s hard, and sometimes I don’t make it, but with hard work and conscious effort, I’m improving. Please note, vegetables and fruit contain a lot of water, so if you’re eating the required amount everyday, there is no need to down a gallon of water everyday, just so you know. Here are some more skin routine tips.

  • If you’re a coffee drinker, make sure to drink twice as much water as coffee is a diuretic and can dry you out.
  • Change and clean your pillowcases and sheets often, there are a lot of built up germs on them that sink into your pores and make for a bad skin day.
  • Wear SPF everyday, even if the sun isn’t out. When you don’t see sun, it’s because it’s covered by clouds and that doesn’t mean you’re protected.
  • Wash your face with luke luke warm water, hot water dries your face out.
  • Get a good nights sleep, sleep recharges your skin and helps with skin cell turn over.
  • If you have sensitive skin, just stay away from products with harsh fragrance. It’ll just irritate your skin and cause more problems.
  • Read your labels! Everything that’s “Natural” or “Organic” is not necessarily good for you.
  • Exfoliate and do a mask every now and then. It helps get rid of dead skin and gives the skin a moisture boost. FYI, I’ve been exfoliating with the Earth Kissed Beauty Chamomile Peace Body Scrub. 
  • Don’t sleep with make-up on. It’ll age you.
  • Reduce your sugar in-take and eat more foods and drink more beverages that promote skin health. Sugar and alcohol unfortunately, won’t cut it.

Well, I hope these tips were super helpful. I know it seems exhausting to do all this but, you’ll thank yourself when you turn 50 and your skin looks like you’re 30.

Till next time!

Sincerely,

Deidra Marie


CLIMB WORKS AND A VISIT TO KUALOA RANCH

After the conference, we only had 2 1/2 days to explore the North Shore of Oahu. Charles and I literally jam-packed as many activities as we could into these 2 days. Talk about exhausting. From sun up to sun down we organized activities to really get a full look at the island as much as we could. First stop was a visit to CLIMB Works to do a bit of ziplining. It was by far my favorite zipline experience to date, although zip lining over gators in Saint Augustine, Florida comes in at a strong second place. We met the sweetest newlywed couple who snapped a few shots of Charles and I doing what we do best, acting cray cray, LOL. We also met another couple who also snapped some super cool pics of us. They were zip lining to celebrate his 47th birthday. Allow me to add that this dude didn’t look a day over 35, just saying. Later in the day, we grabbed some grub at this amazing local Hawaiian spot. I had a grilled pineapple vegetable sandwich and some tasty fries. We then headed back to Makena beach again because clearly we can’t get enough of this darn place. The next day, we headed to Kualoa Ranch Private Nature Reserve and did a full day of touring there. For those who don’t know, Kualoa Ranch is  famous for their beautiful landscape which is often used as the backdrop for many famous movies and television shows such as, Jurassic Park, Jumanji, Snatched, Lost, Hawaii 5.0 and 50 First Dates, just to  name a few.

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Keep scrolling for pics of the full Kualoa Ranch tour.

Best tour guide EVER

A sweet Aussie we met on our tour

Where they shot Jurassic World

Caught in the rain…forest

Looks so cool, huh?

Cute kids doing a walking tour of the ranch

Cute ponchos because it started to pour down.

Helicopter from a movie set

She was so enthusiastic talking about the movies

Chinaman’s hat

Pointing to another historic view

Charles hat, LOL 😂

My yummy veggie and pineapple grilled sandwich 😋

So, these aren’t all my pics, but this gives you an idea of what we were dealing with. It’s the most beautiful landscape, huh?  I have so many more pics I want to share from the tour as we did do a total of 3 tours while we were there so stay tuned for part II of our Kualoa Ranch adventures.

Till next time good people.

Sincerely,

Deidra Marie


THE POWER OF COLLABORATION: A STORY OF TWO GIRLS JUST SHOPPING THE TARGET MAKE-UP ISLE

This past weekend I had a laundry list of things to do. Well, every weekend I have a laundry list of things to do, but let’s just say I’ve been working, working hard to build connections, network and support other women in the business of doing business. There’s something super special about randomness. I met Kathleen at the NC Art Museum last year; she was taking photos for an up and coming blogger/vlogger and I was just snapping pics with the family because that’s just what I do. In any case, we exchanged numbers and agreed to collaborate sometime in the future. The collaboration happened this past Friday, at the Target make-up isle because who doesn’t love having meetings in the Target make-up isle? LOL😆  and I know, only a year later did we clear our schedules for a meet up. I guess this is what it means to be booked and busy. Having only seen this beautiful person once, I didn’t know what to expect, but I knew it would be magical. I feel like we’ve been kicking it for years. There is something amazing about women supporting other women. It’s so important in the content creation world. We are what we support, what we stand for, what we make of situations. I just happened to take a random meet up and make it an opportunity to love on my new friend and support her beautiful photography business, Kathleen Nolis Photography. She definitely has an eye for the romantic. You should check her work out.

An amazing blogger once told me, in reference to increasing engagement, that you have to give love to get love. I have never forgotten this advice and have taken it with me through this blogging and photography journey. I’m a natural cheerleader, I root people on because our words our powerful and can be used to catapult people to amazing new heights. I also love seeing the fruit of encouragement. Sometimes, people just need a loving word to move past self-doubt, disbelief, low confidence. I know, I need a word everyday because negativity creeps in more often than you think. Although, I must admit, it’s easier to pick others up than it is to pick myself up sometimes>>>honesty alert, I don’t have it all together, despite what my Facebook and IG appear to tell you.

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So I ask, who are you rooting for today? What are you rooting for today? Who have you loved on today? Have you made an effort to spark a fire in something or someone?

And as I end this post, recognize that all problems can be solved by making a short trip through the  Target make-up isle, nah, j/k, but in all seriousness, lets take the time to root our friends on and even strangers, cheer for them too because you never know where your this may lead you. Encourage, build up, pour into, love on and push those around you. All this is done through our words and good old fashion collaboration. Take time to meet new people, you never know where it may lead you. In this special case, it lead me to Target, with this beautiful soul.

Oh by the way, before I go, this dope vintage blazer I’m wearing is from Felicia Faye Vintage. Check her site out and grab you a few colorful pieces to brighten up that wardrobe of yours.

Till next time.

Deidra Marie